I admit defeat.
The girl who usually knows what to do has been stumped.
Never thought of you to be the one to play mind games
But here we are!
Imagine if I called or texted a guy when I was drunk?
I would be labeled desperate. But you’re a guy, so you’re just passionate.
I’m a grown fucking woman, yet I can’t decide when to talk to the person I’m in a relationship with.
The same bullshit busy excuse. I was used to it at one point but now it just makes me nauseous
This is either the last time I let you make me feel like this or a series of unfortunate events leading up to the last time.
Excuse my anger, believe it or not, I love and appreciate all of the good moments we have shared. But to date, those good times have been replaced with fighting, fighting, and more fighting!
If only you would really communicate with me. You say I’m terrible at communicating, but ha, you leave so many things left unsaid and then randomly blow up on me.
I learned how to let off steam in middle school. If being with me makes you that anxious to share your feelings, I don’t know what relationship you have been a part of.
I can, however, tell you how it feels from my end.
Mostly me missing you, wanting to talk to you. Occasionally share things that have happened in my day. Yes, sometimes I do want to talk all day! It’s almost like you’re my significant other.. haha. Fuck me for thinking you should have my back or see somewhat eye-to-eye with me on matters like such.
I know the last time you told me you were lonely I could have reacted better. Been like:
“Babe, I miss you too.”
Because it was one hundred percent true! I did realllyyyy miss you.
But past a certain point, it feels like I’m just waiting for you to return feelings that I know that I have for you.
I’m not just sitting around playing with my thumbs. I may not be attending school anymore (I graduated, thank the lord)
I’m not even sure if I ever shared with you how hard my last semester was for me. I don’t think I did.
Here are some feelings again: Try not to be daunted
I was depressed. Deeply depressed. I didn’t want to go to class, I didn’t want to talk to anyone. I wanted to sleep all day and night. I especially did not want to do my school work, because I didn’t think I was capable, I could barely focus at all on anything besides the thought of not wanting to breathe anymore.
But I pushed myself forward. Relied on whoever I could to help me with my struggles, went to therapy whenever I could, which truly did help. (I thank you for helping me reach out and realize I needed to talk to a professional psychologist/therapist) Was the best thing I could have ever done for myself at that point. I also, started a new job at a place I never thought I could handle, I worked sales! I walked around and helped people for sometimes nine hours a day! With a smile on my face, I might add.
But you don’t recognize that I only use that fake smile on people I don’t know. The real smile pops up when I’m around people who let me be me.
At the start of us talking and hanging out, I really did think I could be myself. I don’t know when the switch really happened.
I know I get jealous, I know I can be a hot head at times. I don’t deny any of that. But you never tried to ease my insecurities in person. Just made it seem like I was trying to ruin your day. What a selfish way of looking at it.
You listed alllll of your problems to me recently. You know when. Apparently, I’m one of your problems, why your life sucks.
I’m one of your melancholy buddies from home.
Oh, joy. What an honor to have made your list.
I should quit my bitching and smack a smile on my face to make every man who has ever judged me for not smiling happily.
Didn’t realize I was honored to be with such an upstanding respectful guy.
Hide your emotions, we don’t need those. We can just push them away and away until you snap like I do babe.
Except when I snap, I’m a hot head. When you snap, you passed your breaking point.
See my problem here?
Besides the textbook gaslighting, which you probably still don’t understand.
You limit me. Yes, I said it.
I don’t need to mope around all day. But what I do need is someone willing to listen to me when I have some issues with my life that I need to get off my chest.
You pride yourself on being a modern upstanding guy. News flash. Licking a girl’s twat now and again doesn’t make you a prince.
Yes, you’re a nice guy, that people can definitely have fun with. As a boyfriend. There’s no word or phrase to describe you besides selectively loving and caring.
I’m in love with the guy that I think you are and can be. Sadly, I barely see him in you and your actions anymore.
Tell me I’m crazy.
Then try to tell me everything you think I should hear Mr. Smug.
What else is new with you. Nothing.
White towel thrown.